Personally, I feel with Pluto in synastry, he gets what he wants and then the planet person gets tossed to the side. We have done some fooling around in the past but now he's largely coming off as uninterested and I definitely want to keep my distance. Sure, we flirt every once in a while but that's normal between friends. I wonder if people are picking up on the synastry because the composite chart shows nothing positive except Moon trine Saturn. People have actually assumed we're dating or in a relationship when we're not and have made it clear that it's not the case and it gets irritating. He's not Plutonian unless you count his Pluto squaring his Venus and sextiling his Mars and the fact that he has a 7th house Pluto. I know I shouldn't feel scared because Pluto is my chart ruler and it's in my first house. There's also a bit of sexual chemistry involved with his Mars conjunct my Mars, his Mars sextile my Venus and Moon, and a Venus/Uranus double whammy.

I feel I need to keep my friend at a distance because of that because it's so overwhelming. I’m terrified of him having this ability to look deep into my soul and seeing my true self and I'm scared of letting him to get to know me. Pluto is trine Venus and Moon, sextiles Mars, and squares my Sun.

His Pluto aspects my Venus, Moon, Mars, and Sun. Here's my experience on that: I'm currently friends with a man who is 15 years my senior. I was wondering if anyone has experienced someone's Pluto aspecting any your personal planets and how it made you feel in the long run.

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